Homemade love card. Give your spouse a card that was made by you. Make it on the computer or cut out your old cards for the art work. Your spouse will surely give you an extra point if you can write an original poem. Unless you're an English teacher, don't worry about the meter and the rhyme. If you missed some words, look up in a quote book.

Note your affection. Paste notes in some part of your house or things expressing your appreciation for each other. Put them in the places where he can notice it quickly; on the drawer (“I love you very much”) by the toothpaste (“Thinking of you makes me happy”) and also inside the bathroom (“I'm glad you're my mate”).

Leave love reminders. While he's away from home do something that will remind of him. I know a wife who, before leaving for a weekend conference, created a dummy for their bed by stuffing her silky nigh tie with her husband's underwear and writing a note: “Can't wait to come home!” A husband leaves his wife notes to open each morning while he's away.

Make a unique meal. Decorate a spouse's lunch sack or write a sweet note on the paper napkin. Cut a heart of the orange rind. Use a colored pen to apply your love message to a banana.

Use codes that both of you understand. One couple knows that “1-4-3-4-4” whether written or spoken, means “I Love You Very Much” (The numbers are the number of letters in each word.)

Have the game. A husband came home to a love message spelled out on a scrabble board on the living room floor. Be sure to pick it up before the kids awaken!

Dim the lights. Collect small candles in a tray, light them, and add some mugs of his or her favorite juice, and lead your spouse to a special cuddle-and-talk place.

Mark monthly anniversary. Grad the calendar and each month, draw a red heart around the day of the month you were married, for example, April 30 wedding. Celebrate simply, with a moonlight walk or romantic music on the stereo instead of TV news as dinner background.

Celebrate it yearly. At your tenth wedding anniversary, give your spouse something with ten in it. And give her ten white roses. She might get just as excited over a note offering her eight hours away from kids. He might appreciate tokens for the automatic car wash.

Bag the nag. Do something your spouse has repeatedly asked you to do and you haven't done yet; such as clean up the workbench or deep-clean your clothes closet. Make a big deal of this being your “love job” and be sure to do it cheerfully. Most of the husband doesn't want to see their spouse doing their work due to compliance only.

So many times I have seen or heard the question “what do women want?” Well the answer is no surprise. Women want to be LOVED. We want to be wooed/romance. Just because you may have us (engagement, married, serious relationship) that doesn't mean that the romancing and wooing can or should stop.

Men want to be the “king of the castle” well women want to be your queen and made feel like your queen and not the maidservant whom cleans everything and gets not acknowledgment. We want to feel special and needed. Men need to show their girlfriend/wife that they love her with more then a simple “I love you.” Actions tend to speak louder than words. If you say “I love you” yet ignore her then guess what....she'll feel unloved and undesired. Show you desire her. Occasional flowers go a long way, and I'm not saying on her birthday.

We want communication, not just about the day and random things, but also our interests and yours. We want to feel like our opinions and thoughts matter and are important to you. We want to feel like someone you cannot live without and your life would be different without us in it.

Don't simply say “I love you” and leave it at that. Wow her with something out of character.

Never stop wooing, continue to sweep her off her feet.

When you hug hold tight as if you will NEVER let her go.

What do women want? === we want to be deeply love continuously and made to feel special.